Friday, April 9, 2010

Imperfection is beautiful

Well this is little out of track topic , it does not goes with the theme of my blog , and sorry to all of you posting so late , really guys MBA is not that easy , this post is for my friend who is always worried about imperfection .

Beauty lies in imperfection , imperfection is what makes u happy , parents feel much happy when their children starts speaking those unclear words , which only they can understand rather than when they starts speaking everything clearly ironically which they only can’t understand but others do.

In a movie or show you laugh on a comedian because he tries to show himself imperfect and you feel very happy, a person slips on a banana peel you laugh your heart out because of the imperfection, you enjoy listening a foreigner speaking Hindi or recently in movie 3 idiots everybody enjoyed the presence of chatur because of his imperfection.

Just imagine a scenario if all mountains were perfectly cut at angles, triangles basically will it be beautiful no way or if all the trees were perfectly straight would it have been beautiful . there are millions of examples or in short we remember things because of its imperfection , so if you are imperfect don’t worry you are beautiful.

Friday, August 14, 2009

Happy Independence Day- WAts UR WAY OF CELEBRATING........

“ kyu savera bhi aaj nind main he,
Suraj bhi akela sa is bhid me he,
Havaon par jaise kisi ka pehra he,
Vakt bhi kuch der aaj thehra he,
Jameen bhi aaj kuch udaas he,
Ho na ho aaj kuch khas he,

- arpit singh parihar

First of all very happy independence day to all of you, the starting lines of this post induce a sadness on such an occasion , the occasion which gave me right to express myself independently , but this feeling which I tried to pen down is of the spectators of the freedom struggle who were there during bloodshed at jalianwala bagh they were also present when Bhagat Singh , Sukhdev , Rajguru embraced death for our better tomorrow , they are still there , I can understand there feeling , what they feel when they watch us fighting amongst ourselves, I don’t know about there reaction either they feel pity for those who devoted there life for the freedom , or they feel like laughing ok so you are the ones who gave your life see what they are doing of the freedom , but some where in the bottom of there heart they feel what I tried to express through my pen. Why I always write something which points to the negative thing , why don’t I try to look the positive facet of the things , am I pessimistic ,who always tries to see problem in every opportunity. But I think we Indians have a great problem of being optimistic every time, which made us so resilient towards the problems that now we can adjust with anything almost everything , we have billion plus population what is the harm if few dies in say some terrorist attacks , instead of hanging kasab we are enjoying reading the crap he says in the court , and our media enjoys the stuff and find worthy to publish it and telecast it , Is he a hero that we should know about his parents his whereabouts , his sisters , kasab wants mutton curry denied eating jail food front page news in leading dailies has anyone inquired about family of shahid LT. Manoj Pandey and Vikram Batra , I am sure many of you will ask who are they , what they did. Our over optimism has lead us to what we are today . The reaction we commonly have when someone asks “ hey buddy there is a problem” our obvious reaction “ don’t worry dude we will adjust” instead of solving the problem we adjust .

What freedom means to us……….

I asked a man a day before how you will celebrate independence day , he said just making arrangements for the same , I felt a bit delighted at least he has some enthusiasm to celebrate freedom, I asked what arrangements you are making he said just going to buy some booze as tomorrow is dry day. I got hold of another man and asked him about celebrating freedom , he replied I do it everyday , I asked him can you show me , he paused for a while and then said I just now enjoyed the freedom before you came I pleaded please I want to see , how do you celebrate everyday , he said ok let me try if I can do it again. He went to roadside and started peeing. we Indians believed in a age old theory which we closely attach with globalization that is “ vasudhev kutumbkam” meaning whole world is a single family , now it’s a bit like “ vasudhev shauchalayam” whole world is toilet . wow what a way to enjoy freedom . I didn’t stopped it here only I asked a person who had a criminal background about the same thing his answer was exciting then above all “ we too enjoy the freedom but we have to pay for it , but its ok until and unless we are enjoying it”. so everybody has one way or other to enjoy freedom what is yours??????


Thursday, May 7, 2009

Clean the Window

A few days before I was getting bored , I was flipping through different communities articles and blogs to kill my boredom. Here I came across a beautiful story on some site. I would like to share it with all of you. The story goes like this…..

A young couple moves into a new neighborhood.The next morning, while they are eating breakfast, the young woman sees her neighbor hang the washed clothes outside.That laundry is not very clean, she said, she doesn’t know how to wash correctly.Perhaps she needs better washing soap.Her husband looked on, but remained silent.Every time her neighbor would hang her wash to dry, the young woman would make the same comments. About one month later, the woman was surprised to see a nice clean wash on the line and said to her husband:Look! She has learned how to wash correctly. I wonder who taught her this.The husband said: I got up early this morning and cleaned our windows!

And so it is with life:

What we see when watching others, depends on the purity of the window through which we look. Before we give any criticism, it might be a good idea to check our state of mind and ask ourselves if we are ready to see the good rather than to be looking for something in the person we are about to judge.I know this blog entry does not go with the theme of my blog i.e related to current events and socio political issues. But here is the missing link. Elections are almost over . fates of all the biggies are sealed in the EVM’s. everyone is desperately waiting for the D-Day . but here I want to say whoever forms the government. Its our duty to clean our windows to get a clear view of what is happening in the country. So we can raise our voice against the injustice and Endeavour to transform India into Bharat.


Wednesday, April 1, 2009

Neither congress ,Nor BJP let INDIA win

Mumbai train blasts, jaipur blast , Ajmer blasts, Delhi , Gujarat, Bangalore etc are still echoing in the ears of the masses , but unfortunately our deaf government under the leadership of deaf and dumb prime minister didn’t heard anything .Mr. Mukherjee has still all options open after 4 months of Mumbai attacks. When our eyes were glued to tv screens watching our brave commandos fighting with the terrorists in Taj ,Trident and Nariman House , Our then Home Minister was busy changing clothes . In our country expressing condolences to the family of Martyr’s of the country s termed as “POLITICS”. Loving our country, countrymen, defending our religion everything is termed politics by our biased media.

Gujarat riots were preplanned while development of Gujarat is an accident. Yes sickular media and government has reason for everything . India Mujahiddin is the after effects of the condition of minorities . so what should we do now , we should stop giving them subsidies, reservations , special schemes etc While the Malegaon blasts were RSS sponsored , Hindu terrorism or as our media says “POLITICS”. I am not justifying any act of terrorism here in our country but our government does.

Some want Maharashtrian to be Prime minister, some says Muslim or he should be from Bihar , UP Blah blah blah. But do they ever say that he should be Indian first from heart from origin and from every aspect.

Varun Gandhi shouldn’t be allowed to contest elections , he should not be allowed to live in the country that’s what I heard a media person saying but ajmal kasab , afjal guru are welcome on “Red Carpet” . Mohammad Ajharuddin who sold the dreams of millions of people is welcomed but the one who is talking justice for 80 crore Hindus should be jailed , executed and whatever. What’s the guarantee that a person who didn’t played with mere bat and ball but with the feelings of millions of people of the country , will not sell the country for few more bucks , let’s decide yourself.

so Lets vote for the country this time , let India win this time .

jai hind

Tuesday, March 3, 2009


"chaliye aaj fir ek shuruat ki jaye"

I was traveling from Indore to Bhopal. The general compartment was crowded as always. I too struggled to find some space for standing in the compartment, after a while train left from the station. Many people were standing along with me, few up downers were chatting and their was a constant flow of knowledge from the scholars as they were trying to be. After going through America via Israel, Pakistan, stock markets, recession they landed on the age old favourite topic “youth and moral values”. One middle aged scholar quoted “today’s generation have forgotten all their values and ethics”. I was getting bored with the expert views of scholars but had no option other then to listen their crap. After a while a man of same breed introduced a topic very much popular these days i.e. ‘Hindutva’. The man with the tilak on his forehead was trying to justify the deeds of Ram sena , bajrang dal. As they were discussing the topic the train stopped at a station. A Muslim woman in a burqa probably in late twenties with a baby in his hands stepped into the compartment, suddenly the scholar who were raising their voice in favour of the Gujarat riots, ram sena , bajrang dal , started murmuring. A boy in his early twenties was sharing space with the scholars. He was also listening to the crap they were discussing, he too was Getting bored as I was. After seeing the woman he stood up and offered his seat to the same woman with a baby. She said “bhaiya aapko taklif hogi” ( Brother you will be uncomfortable). He said didi I am a Hindu. My religion tells me to help others irrespective of the caste, colour , religion even if I loose my life for the same. She didn’t understand any thing may be she was thinking that boy is psycho but the scholars did understood everything. I Don’t know what they were thinking after that because there was a total Silence after that. But I really appreciated the way he taught ‘Hindutva’ to the scholars in a youngistan’s way.

Wednesday, December 3, 2008

will it make difference

main jaag raha tha,

taki desh so sake,

main maun tha,

taki desh hans sake,

main goliyan kha raha tha,

taki desh chen se khana kha sake,

main hamesha ke liye so gaya,

taki desh jag sake,

spectre of terror strikes again , politicians on there job , news channels media on there everybody is busy encashing the situation , everyone trying his/her best. some are thinking it the best platform to get publicity after flops after flops. few running sms polls to fill in few more bucks in there pockets. i am confused over the issue who are the real terrorists those who attacked mumbai and later gunned down by army and NSG commandos or the ones who are attacking after this mayhem. we should negotiate either with Islamabad or Delhi itself .

candle light vigils , series of protests , demand for the better leadership. yup i agree its good to be vigilant but for how many days or weeks. why our conscience speaks after a big thing happens or we were waiting for the same.well i am not discarding the outraged faces of the masses but who is responsible for the condition . well answer for this question cant be sought out.

"phir andheron ke saudagaro se ujale ki umeed lagaye baithe he"

Thursday, November 20, 2008

Life underneath............

Its 12:39 few hours more and the stars and moon will be relieved from their job as sun will be the next ceo of sky for next 12 hours (may be less its winter). Its midnight now but my eyes are still wide open thoughts are pouring in and out about career, relationships etc. well we know future is uncertain then too half of our life is wasted on thinking about that I was too doing the same presently, a chain of thoughts was building in my mind similar to few of my friends do with puff of cigarette in front of college. Suddenly this calmness was broken by the whistling of the train I checked my watch it was the time for kshipra express (indorehowrah express). Well this whistling have a transcendental effect on my mind. it again initiated new chain of thoughts well this time they were not just thoughts but accompanied by visuals too. Few more months, and I will be a graduate so as my realm in indore will get over and I will be ready for another life sucking experience termed as PG . why am I saying it as life sucking experience? These are the building blocks of our life. But the answer is simple are we on planet earth for this bullshit or it is planned that way. Will our exit will be as enigmatic as our entry was. There is no pattern in nature every design is unique but aren’t we patterning our lives by moulding it into the same mould every time and searching for some literal life underneath. why am I writing this just because I want it to write for whom I am writing it.when I know I am the part of the same and will be for rest of my life . can I make any difference? But how can I . confused…….. confused………confused. 1:24 now agin heard the whistling of train cant predict which train this time may be the one I predicted before after all it is India. But anyways I am back to my senses but fury of questions still remains unanswered. Can they be answered? I think they are difficult to crack .but simple solution can be(not answer as I believe few questions are to be answered and few to be solved) lets play the part which comes on our way and don’t argue much . but my quest for definite answer for this conundrum remains the same.